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	<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 13:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 10:55:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Deb You're most welcome.  Hope things get better soon!

@Karen Thank you for the great quote and the kind words, Karen.  That means a lot...  By the way, &lt;a href="http://www.confidentwriting.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Joanna Young&lt;/a&gt; is awesome.  She always has the good stuff.  :)

@Margaret Welcome aboard! You know I've met so many different artists who are programming as a "day job": musicians, painters, performance artists, and of course writers.  I'm not sure if we're a clever bunch or if we've all gotten suckered into  the field. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Deb You&#8217;re most welcome.  Hope things get better soon!</p>
<p>@Karen Thank you for the great quote and the kind words, Karen.  That means a lot&#8230;  By the way, <a href="http://www.confidentwriting.com/" rel="nofollow">Joanna Young</a> is awesome.  She always has the good stuff.  <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Margaret Welcome aboard! You know I&#8217;ve met so many different artists who are programming as a &#8220;day job&#8221;: musicians, painters, performance artists, and of course writers.  I&#8217;m not sure if we&#8217;re a clever bunch or if we&#8217;ve all gotten suckered into  the field. <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Margaret</title>
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		<dc:creator>Margaret</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 07:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well hi! I don't know what took me so long to get here, but I'm so glad I came. I saw you on Stumble and was instantly struck by the "writer and programmer", because... me too!  And someday, I will make that switch. Or, rather, just get rid of the programming part.  But for now it's doing the day job to pay the bills while blogging and also trying to find time to write, on top of everything else! I keep getting caught up in all the blogging and social networking stuff, but it's refreshing to find another real writer.

Margaret's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://www.nannygoatsinpanties.com/2008/07/shoes-white-people-like.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;Shoes White People Like&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well hi! I don&#8217;t know what took me so long to get here, but I&#8217;m so glad I came. I saw you on Stumble and was instantly struck by the &#8220;writer and programmer&#8221;, because&#8230; me too!  And someday, I will make that switch. Or, rather, just get rid of the programming part.  But for now it&#8217;s doing the day job to pay the bills while blogging and also trying to find time to write, on top of everything else! I keep getting caught up in all the blogging and social networking stuff, but it&#8217;s refreshing to find another real writer.</p>
<p>Margaret&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.nannygoatsinpanties.com/2008/07/shoes-white-people-like.html" rel="nofollow">Shoes White People Like</a></p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 03:41:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"It is one of the paradoxes of the sustained creative life that the more lightly we take ourselves the more serious work we will probably be able to do.  The more we bear down on ourselves, the more constricted we will feel, and the more vulnerable we will be to creative injury" --Julia Cameron, Walking in This World

Joanna Young shared this quote today and I could not help but share it with you. You have accomplished serious work when you "almost started writing." You are talented my friend, and I eagerly look forward to the next installment.

Karen Swim's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/index.php/2008/07/how-i-made-the-a-list-with-little-to-no-fanfare/" rel="nofollow"&gt;How I Made the A-List with Little to No Fanfare&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;It is one of the paradoxes of the sustained creative life that the more lightly we take ourselves the more serious work we will probably be able to do.  The more we bear down on ourselves, the more constricted we will feel, and the more vulnerable we will be to creative injury&#8221; &#8211;Julia Cameron, Walking in This World</p>
<p>Joanna Young shared this quote today and I could not help but share it with you. You have accomplished serious work when you &#8220;almost started writing.&#8221; You are talented my friend, and I eagerly look forward to the next installment.</p>
<p>Karen Swim&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/index.php/2008/07/how-i-made-the-a-list-with-little-to-no-fanfare/" rel="nofollow">How I Made the A-List with Little to No Fanfare</a></p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jamie, Thank you for the Stumble. I wondered where all the Sunday traffic came from and then saw StumbleOn in the list of referrers. I have to sit down and figure out StumbleOn someday, maybe when real life isn't on the verge of a crash.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jamie, Thank you for the Stumble. I wondered where all the Sunday traffic came from and then saw StumbleOn in the list of referrers. I have to sit down and figure out StumbleOn someday, maybe when real life isn&#8217;t on the verge of a crash.</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 19:16:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay Jamie, it's up. Warning, it's long but not as long as Chicago.

Oops, that should be Forrester with 2 Rs. It's not great cinema but I liked it. I think it illustrated how much of a writer's angst is self-imposed by some misguided idea that self-flagellation is our only duty.

Your previous comment about fearing success made me think you had seen the movie. So in the interest of "no spoilers" I'll leave it at that.

Have you read Margaret Mitchell's (Gone with the Wind) bio?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay Jamie, it&#8217;s up. Warning, it&#8217;s long but not as long as Chicago.</p>
<p>Oops, that should be Forrester with 2 Rs. It&#8217;s not great cinema but I liked it. I think it illustrated how much of a writer&#8217;s angst is self-imposed by some misguided idea that self-flagellation is our only duty.</p>
<p>Your previous comment about fearing success made me think you had seen the movie. So in the interest of &#8220;no spoilers&#8221; I&#8217;ll leave it at that.</p>
<p>Have you read Margaret Mitchell&#8217;s (Gone with the Wind) bio?</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 12:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Deb I haven't.  I heard it was pretty good.  Did you like it?

@Steph I think that's the same problem every writer faces no matter how far along they are in their career.  I've written two novels and I still have trouble thinking about the next piece.

Thanks for the kind words and good luck with your blog! You should turn those two paragraphs above into a nugget for a new post on your site!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Deb I haven&#8217;t.  I heard it was pretty good.  Did you like it?</p>
<p>@Steph I think that&#8217;s the same problem every writer faces no matter how far along they are in their career.  I&#8217;ve written two novels and I still have trouble thinking about the next piece.</p>
<p>Thanks for the kind words and good luck with your blog! You should turn those two paragraphs above into a nugget for a new post on your site!  <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Steph</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 01:59:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just found your post from... I think it was Writing Journey?  Some other comment you made.  Anyway, wow. 

You don't come out and say it, but I think you're grappling with the same sort of thing as I do, that you want to write but can't seem to make the time or commitment to sit down and decide to write something substantial.  I just started my blog today and I feel like maybe I'll make strides in my writing now that I can email posts from anywhere, but I know I'm going to have to get over my own issues before I can actually create something as powerful as the passion I have for writing.  

Am I making sense?  Also sorry for writing this whole post about myself-- being self-absorbed will come back to bite you sometimes.  What I wanted to say though, was, GREAT!  You really connected with me as a reader.  

Steph</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just found your post from&#8230; I think it was Writing Journey?  Some other comment you made.  Anyway, wow. </p>
<p>You don&#8217;t come out and say it, but I think you&#8217;re grappling with the same sort of thing as I do, that you want to write but can&#8217;t seem to make the time or commitment to sit down and decide to write something substantial.  I just started my blog today and I feel like maybe I&#8217;ll make strides in my writing now that I can email posts from anywhere, but I know I&#8217;m going to have to get over my own issues before I can actually create something as powerful as the passion I have for writing.  </p>
<p>Am I making sense?  Also sorry for writing this whole post about myself&#8211; being self-absorbed will come back to bite you sometimes.  What I wanted to say though, was, GREAT!  You really connected with me as a reader.  </p>
<p>Steph</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 19:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did you see the film "Finding Forester?"

I'm writing my own post, really I am; I promise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you see the film &#8220;Finding Forester?&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m writing my own post, really I am; I promise.</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 18:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Deb Don't worry -  that's me talking about my own lack of courage.  I didn't think you were saying that. :)

My lack of courage is something that Ralph Keyes talks about in Courage to Write: I'm afraid of success.

So no one should worry about me turning off this site (got an email from a reader right after that last comment).  I love the name and the idea behind the site and I can't see a time when I won't.

Writing and failure go hand in hand.  It's part of the game.  The best work comes from stretching yourself.

I'm looking forward to that next post of yours, Deb!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Deb Don&#8217;t worry -  that&#8217;s me talking about my own lack of courage.  I didn&#8217;t think you were saying that. <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>My lack of courage is something that Ralph Keyes talks about in Courage to Write: I&#8217;m afraid of success.</p>
<p>So no one should worry about me turning off this site (got an email from a reader right after that last comment).  I love the name and the idea behind the site and I can&#8217;t see a time when I won&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Writing and failure go hand in hand.  It&#8217;s part of the game.  The best work comes from stretching yourself.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m looking forward to that next post of yours, Deb!</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 17:54:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jamie - Whoa; I did not mean that you lack the courage to face being a writer and I don't want you to take it that way. And please do not mothball this site or change the name. It is perfect for the kind of work that gets done here which is giving people permission to fail, and fail better (I know that's the name of a website but I can still use it descriptively), by your own transparency. (And do I believe that you are 100% transparent? No, none of us are or can be so get over that.)

What I was talking about was your comment that "Once I acknowledge the fact that it is real writing, the whole thing goes to hell." I will elaborate in my own post but the "Cliff's Notes" version is I think you have the idea that writing for real should be more inspired, or more professional, or should only take one rewrite, or some such nonsense. That is bunk, you are doing real writing and you need to print up a WORD doc that reads:

&lt;h2&gt;I do real writing&lt;/h2&gt;

...in 36 font Times Roman and make 20 copies of it and post it prominently and read it aloud every time you see one of those copies until you believe it and exorcise that counterproductive thinking and behaving. And we all have a j-o-b to keep us afloat but we need to give it its due but no more than its due.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jamie - Whoa; I did not mean that you lack the courage to face being a writer and I don&#8217;t want you to take it that way. And please do not mothball this site or change the name. It is perfect for the kind of work that gets done here which is giving people permission to fail, and fail better (I know that&#8217;s the name of a website but I can still use it descriptively), by your own transparency. (And do I believe that you are 100% transparent? No, none of us are or can be so get over that.)</p>
<p>What I was talking about was your comment that &#8220;Once I acknowledge the fact that it is real writing, the whole thing goes to hell.&#8221; I will elaborate in my own post but the &#8220;Cliff&#8217;s Notes&#8221; version is I think you have the idea that writing for real should be more inspired, or more professional, or should only take one rewrite, or some such nonsense. That is bunk, you are doing real writing and you need to print up a WORD doc that reads:</p>
<h2>I do real writing</h2>
<p>&#8230;in 36 font Times Roman and make 20 copies of it and post it prominently and read it aloud every time you see one of those copies until you believe it and exorcise that counterproductive thinking and behaving. And we all have a j-o-b to keep us afloat but we need to give it its due but no more than its due.</p>
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