<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: It&#039;s All in a Name: Getting Past Being Anonymous</title>
	<atom:link href="http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/</link>
	<description>If you're reading this, you're not writing.  Obvious but true.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 06:27:01 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: Rob Siders</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-2004</link>
		<dc:creator>Rob Siders</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 16:31:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-2004</guid>
		<description>Mmmm. The Irish Lion. I&#039;ve gotten half-loaded --- and fully loaded --- there several times, myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mmmm. The Irish Lion. I&#8217;ve gotten half-loaded &#8212; and fully loaded &#8212; there several times, myself.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-1269</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 16:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-1269</guid>
		<description>@Tom When i think back on this post, I see how much time and energy I put into hiding.  It makes me a bit sad, but then I realize this is a process that so many people go through in learning to accept who they are and what they do.

Just recently, I added &quot;writer&quot; to my LinkedIn profile.  That was a big step too.

Thanks for sharing your story too, Tom... and I loved the Irish Lion (sounds like you did too) ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Tom When i think back on this post, I see how much time and energy I put into hiding.  It makes me a bit sad, but then I realize this is a process that so many people go through in learning to accept who they are and what they do.</p>
<p>Just recently, I added &#8220;writer&#8221; to my LinkedIn profile.  That was a big step too.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing your story too, Tom&#8230; and I loved the Irish Lion (sounds like you did too) <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Tom Harold</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-1267</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Harold</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:49:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-1267</guid>
		<description>Jamie,

So glad I took a moment to read this post.  I took this step just this past year after my Myspace page/blog got wiped out.  I had been writing in it for over a year, and it seemed like it had served its purpose, and that it was time to do things a little differently.  I asked my brother for blog ideas, and one day he sends me a Wordpress blog link and says, &quot;Do this.&quot;  It had my full name at the top!

I took the opportunity to think over what I had been doing, and what I wanted to do in the future.  I decided to stick with the blog he set up for me, and to really put myself out there, because semi-hiding hadn&#039;t gotten me where I wanted to be.

Of course, NOT hiding hasn&#039;t immediately equated to putting me where I want to be, but it&#039;s a big step in the right direction.  I&#039;ve been contacting a still small, but undeniably wider group of people.  Progress is a good thing.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Oh, and I spent the night before graduation at the Irish Lion.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tom Harold&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thatstom.com/?p=204&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;NaNoWriMo - Screaming Toward 50K and No End in Sight&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jamie,</p>
<p>So glad I took a moment to read this post.  I took this step just this past year after my Myspace page/blog got wiped out.  I had been writing in it for over a year, and it seemed like it had served its purpose, and that it was time to do things a little differently.  I asked my brother for blog ideas, and one day he sends me a WordPress blog link and says, &#8220;Do this.&#8221;  It had my full name at the top!</p>
<p>I took the opportunity to think over what I had been doing, and what I wanted to do in the future.  I decided to stick with the blog he set up for me, and to really put myself out there, because semi-hiding hadn&#8217;t gotten me where I wanted to be.</p>
<p>Of course, NOT hiding hasn&#8217;t immediately equated to putting me where I want to be, but it&#8217;s a big step in the right direction.  I&#8217;ve been contacting a still small, but undeniably wider group of people.  Progress is a good thing.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts.</p>
<p>Oh, and I spent the night before graduation at the Irish Lion.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tom Harold&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.thatstom.com/?p=204" rel="nofollow">NaNoWriMo &#8211; Screaming Toward 50K and No End in Sight</a></em></abbr></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-1036</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 00:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-1036</guid>
		<description>@Uppington Come out, come out, wherever you are!!!  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Uppington Come out, come out, wherever you are!!!  <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Uppington</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-1029</link>
		<dc:creator>Uppington</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-1029</guid>
		<description>Oh Dear.  I&#039;m not ready yet, but I&#039;m peeking out of the closet door...

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Uppington&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://uppington.wordpress.com/2008/10/28/in-which-i-succumb-to-nanowrimo/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In Which I Succumb to Nanowrimo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Dear.  I&#8217;m not ready yet, but I&#8217;m peeking out of the closet door&#8230;</p>
<p><abbr><em>Uppington&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://uppington.wordpress.com/2008/10/28/in-which-i-succumb-to-nanowrimo/" rel="nofollow">In Which I Succumb to Nanowrimo</a></em></abbr></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-331</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 00:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-331</guid>
		<description>@RJL You hit the nail on the head.  HNTW is definitely a lifestyle choice.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@RJL You hit the nail on the head.  HNTW is definitely a lifestyle choice.  <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: rjleaman</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-330</link>
		<dc:creator>rjleaman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 00:27:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-330</guid>
		<description>Love the &#039;fun being bad&#039; stories - sounds like you&#039;ve secretly been wanting to be forced out into the open, maybe? In any case, it explains why your writing always rings true, even before there was a name attached: How Not To Write is/was not a *persona* but a true pseudonym. It all becomes clear now! ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the &#8216;fun being bad&#8217; stories &#8211; sounds like you&#8217;ve secretly been wanting to be forced out into the open, maybe? In any case, it explains why your writing always rings true, even before there was a name attached: How Not To Write is/was not a *persona* but a true pseudonym. It all becomes clear now! <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-329</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 20:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-329</guid>
		<description>Thanks for stopping by, Roxx!  Glad I could help you by telling my story!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for stopping by, Roxx!  Glad I could help you by telling my story!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: roxx (Rossana S Tarantini)</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-328</link>
		<dc:creator>roxx (Rossana S Tarantini)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 18:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-328</guid>
		<description>Wow!!!

I &quot;stumbled upon&quot; this blog page.  Oddly fitting that as I struggle to find my &quot;voice&quot;, it should be about &quot;coming out of the closet&quot;.  

I write - have done for over ten years now.  But not fiction.  I write for an online food &#039;zine ( www.seasoned.com ) and what started out as informational, how-to, and food related, has evolved into opinion, commentary, ruminating.  

And now I want to take it further.

We shall see.

But enough about that, well done, Jamie.  I like what I&#039;ve found on your site so far.  I&#039;ll be back!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow!!!</p>
<p>I &#8220;stumbled upon&#8221; this blog page.  Oddly fitting that as I struggle to find my &#8220;voice&#8221;, it should be about &#8220;coming out of the closet&#8221;.  </p>
<p>I write &#8211; have done for over ten years now.  But not fiction.  I write for an online food &#8216;zine ( <a href="http://www.seasoned.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.seasoned.com</a> ) and what started out as informational, how-to, and food related, has evolved into opinion, commentary, ruminating.  </p>
<p>And now I want to take it further.</p>
<p>We shall see.</p>
<p>But enough about that, well done, Jamie.  I like what I&#8217;ve found on your site so far.  I&#8217;ll be back!!!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jamie Grove</title>
		<link>http://www.hownottowrite.com/thoughts-on-writing/its-all-in-a-name-getting-past-being-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-327</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie Grove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 17:38:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.hownottowrite.com/?p=198#comment-327</guid>
		<description>@RJL Thanks! Now I&#039;m blushing.

On the voice thing, I don&#039;t expect any changes.  Here&#039;s a little story that might help explain:

My father was a police officer and he was very good at sniffing out trouble.  So, I pretty much got caught for every bad thing I did growing up.

However, rather than learning to be sneaky, I found out that is way more &lt;b&gt;fun&lt;/b&gt; to be bad and own up to it from the start.  ;)

The only exception to this was the bachelor party I held for a pal of mine.  We had it at my parents house while they were on vacation.  I would have gotten away with that one too if the &quot;entertainment&quot; hadn&#039;t brought a pink feather boa.  Thought I swept them all up, but it turns out I missed a few.

We had a good laugh about that one, even though the old man was pissed that I didn&#039;t take pictures.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@RJL Thanks! Now I&#8217;m blushing.</p>
<p>On the voice thing, I don&#8217;t expect any changes.  Here&#8217;s a little story that might help explain:</p>
<p>My father was a police officer and he was very good at sniffing out trouble.  So, I pretty much got caught for every bad thing I did growing up.</p>
<p>However, rather than learning to be sneaky, I found out that is way more <b>fun</b> to be bad and own up to it from the start.  <img src='http://www.hownottowrite.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>The only exception to this was the bachelor party I held for a pal of mine.  We had it at my parents house while they were on vacation.  I would have gotten away with that one too if the &#8220;entertainment&#8221; hadn&#8217;t brought a pink feather boa.  Thought I swept them all up, but it turns out I missed a few.</p>
<p>We had a good laugh about that one, even though the old man was pissed that I didn&#8217;t take pictures.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
